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A Random Moment – A Lasting Memory

August 25, 2010

Have you ever thought about the significant moments in your life.  Take a few moments and just let you mind wander and reflect on those times when you knew that this event would never escape your memory.  

Pause for …. 

Now, for the moments that came to the forefront… Are they planned, thought out, prepared for, approached with anticipation, or are they a statement made by someone you barely know, a random encounter, a chance situation?  More than likely, those signficant moments are comprised of both.  A wedding, the birth of a child, graduation coupled with a surprise job promotion, a raise, praise from someone you respect or care about, etc.  Life is both ordinary and extraordinary; would you agree?  With that said, what if we approached the random moments with anticipation of a lasting and significant moment coming just around the corner.  In other words, what if we anticipated GREAT THINGS to come out of what everyone else would consider ordinary or mundane moments of life.  You see @ challengefactor.com, we all strive to take on life’s challenges (aka… goals, aspirations, or the “daily grind”) with the mindset that GREAT THINGS will happen.  Not might but WILL.  Are you with me?  Join us at ChallengeFactor.com, and take on life’s Challenges & Factor the difference!

Sheldon

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Ready for Lift-Off!

January 25, 2010

Have you ever thought about a plane taking off?

More specifically, how does it get off the ground?

Well, I was considering this over the weekend and did some research on the topic.  I found it especially intriguing that ideally a plane takes off into the wind, so wherever direction the wind is coming from is typically where the plane is heading, initially.  After the “all clear” from the control tower the pilot revs the engine up to a particular percentage of power accelerating the plane and creating airspeed.  The increased airspeed over the wings causes lift, and once the amount of  lift is greater than the weight of the plane, the plane will experience lift-off.

So, here are four quick applications that I think we take from this…

Built for a purpose…  An airplane is built to fly.  To move people and objects from place to place.  If it sits in a hangar or on the runway and never takes off, it is not achieving its potential.  Similarly, I believe we are built for a reason, a purpose.  We all have great potential and life allows us the opportunities to strive and aspire to reach that potential.  Like the plane that sits in the hangar, if choose not to use our gifts and talents, we will simply not get off the ground.  What is your purpose?  Are you doing anything about it?

Going against the wind… To increase airspeed, the pilot would rather take-off against the wind creating lift faster.  What if we were to go against traditional thought?  Sure, there would be opposition and it would not be easy.  It is always easier to go along with things as they happen, but have you considered what would happen if you turned things around.  Much like the plane generating increased airspeed and faster lift, I believe that to also be true of ourselves once we stand up and commit.

–   Lighten your load… The heavier the plane, the more airspeed it will take to create lift.  Are you carrying a lot of luggage?  Maybe its emotional, physical, professional luggage, it really doesn’t matter because it all adds weight.  What can you do to lighten your load?  If there is no excess baggage, then that is when we must formulate a game plan on how to transport it effectively.   In life, bags don’t fly free.

Planes have wings… Without air rushing past the wings of the plane creating The Bernoulli Effect, there would be no lift-off.  The Bernoulli Effect states the pressure in air decreases as the speed of the air increases.  So, the faster the air over the top of the wing lowers the pressure and creates lift.  The wing is paramount to getting off the ground.  Do you have wings?  I am not talking about a bad hair day.  I am talking about someone or, better yet someones, standing by you and supporting your efforts to experience flight in your life.  I know I do, but if I didn’t, I think I would still be grounded.  Isn’t it interesting that because the positive effect of the wings that the airspeed pressure actually decreases.  I think it is also true if we have people we can count on that it decreases situational pressure, so we become more free to pursue our goals.

So, this is control tower, we are giving you the “all clear”, and you are “Ready for Lift-Off”!

by Sheldon Nadeau

Sheldon is the co-founder of ChallengeFactor.com and an Independent Associate for Isagenix International.  You can reach him at sheldon@challengefactor.com.

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2010 – Time to Begin Again?

December 23, 2009

2010 – Time to Begin Again?

By Sheldon Nadeau

Well, here we are on the verge of yet another year, another decade, and with the New Year comes those infamous resolutions.  Infamous because it seems resolutions are often dropped, even forgotten within a few days or a week, or maybe some will last a month.  For many this year may be just another year due to the repeated occurrences of disappointment, setback, failure, defeat; plus, with each passing year and the mounting unfulfilled resolutions of New Years’ past, the very thought of a resolution may seem like going through the motion of creating yet another potential discouragement.  Why even bother?

Here’s why.  An indifferent, “do nothing” attitude is far worse than any potential setback or disappointment.  Just think with each defeat, victory is that much closer.  I am reminded of the Light Bulb.  Why?  Well, it has been extensively documented Thomas Edison failed many times before finally patenting the incandescent light bulb, and he describes his mindset about this passionate pursuit mired in defeat with this quote, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”  That mindset propelled Edison to arguably one of the greatest inventions of all time.  That mindset can propel you to become a better you, and that is precisely why I have termed this method of goal setting as the Light Bulb Approach!

Here’s how it works.

Step 1 – What is your light bulb?  Define your goal and be specific.  Often failure is a result of a lack of clarity.  As succinct as possible, write down a measurable goal that could include milestones.

Step 2 – Flip the switch.  Turn around the negative attitude and begin looking on the bright side.  In order for you to accomplish anything meaningful, it will take resolve and passion to stay positive and keep going.

Step 3 – Let your light shine.  Tell others what you are planning to do, so they are not left in the dark.  A goal that is held within is often a goal that is unfulfilled.  By telling others you can be encouraged when your light begins to flicker.

Step 4 – Change your bulb, if necessary.  Be flexible with your goal.  It could be the bulb you picked out shines a little too bright or may even be too dull.  As long as you are adaptive and measuring your pursuit, you will not run the risk of getting burned out.

Step 5 –  Enlighten others.  If what you are doing is working for you, then share your light with others, so they too can be encouraged by your accomplishment.  This approach is not only about lighting up your own life, but about spreading the light to others.

Yes, 2010 is time to begin again.  And, I challenge you to make this year one to remember, so it will be a building block for 2011.

About the author:  Sheldon Nadeau is the co-founder of Challengefactor.com and independent associate for Isagenix.  Being active and encouraging others to do the same is at the core of what drives him.  For more about Isagenix, visit www.sheldon1.isagenix.com, and Challenge Factor, go to www.challengefactor.com.

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Expect the Unexpected

August 25, 2009

Matt at Longview Lake on bike

On Saturday, August 22nd, Sheldon and I embarked on our first century (100 mile) bike riding journey as part of the training for the fast approaching Show Me Challenge.  The Show Me Challenge includes running and cycling across the state of Missouri in four days in an effort to raise money for The Touched by Cancer Foundation and raise awareness of our new company, Challenge Factor.  The Challenge begins on September 8th at the Staybridge Suites hotel in Independence MO.

What began as a standard training ride ended up being anything but standard.  We encountered the unexpected along the way, and learned some life lessons, as well.

The day began early, before the break of dawn.  I loaded up my bike and gear into CHALLENGER ONE and headed to Sheldon’s house arriving a few minutes after 6:00 am.  Sheldon and I double checked our gear to make sure we were ready for the day’s journey.  I had three water bottles, Sheldon had two, we had several packets of Gu to keep us fueled along the way, and we were also prepared for any flat tires or bike mishaps with a repair kit and some CO2 cartridges.  We each had a credit card and driver’s license with us in case we needed to stop along the way and purchase something.  Before we hopped on our bikes, we said a quick word of prayer asking the Lord for safety knowing this ride was much further than either of us had ever gone before. Deciding we were prepared, we strapped in (Sheldon) and clicked in (me), and away we went.

All seemed to be going great, and the day could have not been more perfect.   The sun was coming up over the horizon, and the temperature was in the low 60’s (perfect for a ride).  At just five miles into our ride, we encountered our first of many unexpected situations.  Sheldon’s back tire sprung a leak and quickly went flat.  We went to work trying to get it repaired, so we could get back on the road without losing a lot of time.  I had two CO2 cartages to air the tire back up once it was patched, but unfortunately we were unable to locate the needle sized hole, so we ended up wasting one of our two CO2’s.  After we found the hole, we patched it and put the tire back together.  We then used the second and last CO2 to air the tire back up.  About half way through airing the tire, the CO2 valve blew out along with the rest of air.  At this point, we had a half aired tire with no way to air it up.  Our excitement for the day was quickly waning and teetering on the verge of frustration.

Sheldon called his wife, Laura, to ask her to bring us a bike pump he had at his house.  Laura said she would come as quickly as she could, but she was going to have to wake the kids first.  After sitting on the side of the road for some time, another biker came peddling our way.  We flagged the rider down asking if she might have a pump we could use.  Yes!  The other rider did have a pump.  We placed a quick call to Laura letting her know we no longer needed help, and we were on our way.  It was nice to have the helping hand of a stranger when we needed it.

From there we road east to 135th and Stateline where we stopped at a Wal-Mart in hopes of finding some more CO2’s or a small hand held pump just in case we encountered another flat.   We did find both CO2 cartages and hand held pumps; however neither would work for us because the CO2’s were not threaded and the pump applicator would not fit the valve stems on our bikes.  My anxiety rose slightly knowing if we did encounter another flat we had nothing to repair it, but we pressed on.

We rode out past Longview Lake and Longview College.  The sun was getting higher in the sky at this point, and the lake looked like a pool of sparkling refreshment just calling out for a nice relaxing swim.  Resisting the urge, we pressed forward.  While passing one of the picnic shelters by the lake, we met some new Spanish friends.  We conversed briefly in broken Spanish and they replied in broken English; smiles were on all our faces.  They recited the Challenge Factor slogan in Spanish “Accept the Challenge, Factor the Difference”.  YouTube Video, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BX8axz_A7YU

From there we made our way to downtown Lee’s Summit, where we stopped at Bike America (one of the sponsors for the Show Me Challenge) to purchase some more CO2’s and a hand held pump.  At this point, my anxiety subsided knowing we were properly equipped once again for what may come.  After the bike shop, we made a quick stop at a gas station for some more water and realized Sheldon had lost both his credit card and drivers’ license while pulling the directions out his shirt pouch earlier.  There is nothing more frustrating than losing both your credit card and driver’s license.  This is not the type of mental distraction, we needed at this point.  Sheldon made another quick call to Laura to get the card canceled.

From the gas station, we headed out to Lake Jacomo to get to our half way point of 50 miles.  Both Sheldon and I were getting tired at this point, and the hills around the lake proved to be challenging, but it was just the training we needed.  We made our way back to Lee’s Summit where we stopped to grab some lunch.  We also made some time to stop at a bike and skate park we came across.  We watched the guys ride for awhile and had a good conversation with a bmx’er that was ripping up the park by doing all kinds of cool tricks.

We were now excited to be on the second half of our journey and heading for home.  We still had a long ways to go, but all things considered, we were doing well.   We were traveling back through downtown Lee’s Summit where Sheldon encountered yet another flat on his rear tire.  At this point, we had just finished lunch, and we were looking forward to making our way home and a second flat tire was not what we needed.   Instead of focusing on the negative of the situation, we had to look to the bright side which was we were back in downtown Lee’s Summit and the Bike America bike shop was right around the corner.   This was definitely yet another delay in our day, but we took it in stride.  Besides it was a wonderful day outside, we were bike riding, and if you were to encounter such circumstances who better to encounter them with than your best friend.  Also, out of all the places to get a flat tire, who would have guessed we would be right by a bike shop.  Coincidence, I think not.

Not wanting to take the risk of another patch blowing out, we decided to get a new tire tube.  After getting the new tube installed, we headed back out on the road.   At this point we figured we were all set to go and nothing else could go wrong.  Besides if we had a third flat that would mean three strikes we’re out.

Working on Matt's bike

We were pressing hard to make up for some lost time and getting set for a huge downhill on the west side of Lee’s Summit.  Sheldon was in front, and I was drafting right behind.  All of the sudden I heard a loud pop and saw a white dust like spray coming from Sheldon’s back tire.  The first thought that went through my mind was “not again” and the second thought was “we’re done”.

At this point, we had been gone for over 9 hours and were only 60 miles into our ride, the sun was hot, and we were tired.  We were both extremely frustrated.  We gathered our emotions and began working to repair the blow out.  The patches were not holding and we could not keep air in the tire.  We sat there for a moment wondering what now.  Then, Sheldon looked around at the neighborhood behind us and said he had some friends that lived right around the corner.  We thought it was worth a try to see if they were home, so we made our way just a few blocks, and they were home.  What are the odds of having three blow outs and each time finding ourselves in a location that aided us in our situation?  Need I say it again… Coincidence, I think not!

Sheldon’s friend quickly helped us by tossing Sheldon’s bike in the bed of his black Chevy truck and took the bike back to Bike America where the technician discovered a slight gash in the sidewall of the tire proving to be the culprit causing the tubes to blow out.  This time Sheldon got a new tire and new tube.

We were determined to complete our journey.  We had accepted the Challenge and giving up was not an option for us.  Had either of been on this journey alone, we may have given up but through the encouragement of each other we pressed on.

We were back on the road with 40 miles and a lot of hills to go.  Not only does dealing with all these unexpected situations wear on you physically, they wear on you mentally.  It is in these times of adversity when having the right mental attitude comes into play.  We are given the opportunity to either keep pressing forward despite the circumstances, or we could have backed down.  We chose to press on, and we invite and encourage you to press on through the adversity standing in your way, too.  Don’t let some flat tires be the obstacle that keeps you from riding on to victory.

The last leg of our ride was slow and the day was taking its toll on both of us.  Shortly after crossing back onto the Kansas side of the state line, Sheldon took a nasty spill while going over a set of rail road tracks.  A wipeout with bloody knuckles and elbow was not on the list of expectations for the day.  Being the Challenger he his, Sheldon was quickly back on his bike and cycling onward.

It was now late in the day and our journey was coming to end.  At just over 11 hours after starting that morning, we rolled back onto Sheldon’s driveway with a sigh of relief and great accomplishment.  There was a sense of joy and satisfaction that came from completing the task we had set out to conquer.  Despite all the obstacles along the way, we still pressed on.  Although the day did not go according to plan, we still reached our final destination.

I gained much more from this day than just physical conditioning. I learned to expect the unexpected.  It goes without saying, our century training ride did not go smoothly, but we kept our final destination, our goal, in front of us.  Through all of the setbacks of the day, we strangely found ourselves enjoying the journey because we kept fighting to maintain a positive perspective.  Life is a lot like a long bike ride in that there are times of long straight-a-ways where things are pretty mundane yet comfortable.  Then, there are stretches of steep hills or mountains to climb that are painful to get through taking us out of our comfort zones.  Though, I must encourage you to climb those mountains in order to experience the view from the top.  Keep in mind, that the downhill will come fast, and you will more than likely find yourself in the midst of another climb, but stay positive and press on through it.  The challenges have purpose and meaning, and if choose to embrace them; we will be well on our way to Factoring the Difference in our lives.  Again, I don’t think the events of today were coincidental in nature.  We were blessed by the adversity because the accomplishment meant that much more to us.

Wherever you find yourself on this bike ride of life, keep peddling.  Aspire to be your best, Believe you can do it, and Conquer your challenges.  ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE and FACTOR THE DIFFERENCE!

Matt

M&S after 30 mile training

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The Best is Yet to Come

August 21, 2009

I was reminded of this phrase the other day, and I can’t get it out my head.  The thought of “The Best is Yet to Come” has captivated me because of its meaning and potential application by anyone at any point in their life.  Go ahead, say it out loud while you read it, “The Best is Yet to Come”.  Don’t worry about your dog staring at you wondering what the heck you are doing, or your colleague sitting in the cube next to you, just say it.  It is intersting the psyche that you take on when you really consider phrases like this.  I think if you focus on positive and motivational phrases, you will start to believe it if you don’t already.  You begin to be empowered and encouraged to take on the mundane or signicant daily challenges because you know that more is in store for you.

We all hit those difficult times when frankly it is just hard to stay positive.  It often seems when things go wrong, or not as we predicted, we have a tendency to allow the let-downs overshadow the positives.  Here is the cool thing that I remind myself when I begin to feel this way… “The Best is Yet to Come”.  To think that even as we go through what seem to be the best of times, we still can look forward with intrigue knowing that it can be better.

Here is what I know to be true.  No one else can do what you can do.  No one else can be what you can be.  You are the only you, completely.  Times may be tough, and the Challenge before you may be signficant.  But, keep in mind this time its different.  You see, difficult circumstances won’t cause you to be numb.  Because, The Best is Yet to Come!

Sheldon

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Battle Wounds Part 1

August 6, 2009

Well, it goes without saying that if you are in pursuit of something that is worthwhile, to finally reach your goal is not going to be easy.  I do think that is why so many just throw in the towel and call it good.  Don’t get me wrong; I am not condoning going forward when a physical, or otherwise, limitation has surfaced causing severe pain or discomfort.  Those situations should be brought before a qualified GP or MD depending upon the nature of the injury.  What I am speaking to are the obstacles that sort of come our way to just make it more difficult.  Last night, as I was grinding through my 30 mile training ride and really feeling pretty good, I ran smack dab into one of those obstacles.

I did not prepare my route adequately, so I really did not have a clue where I was going to go.  I just set off to complete 30 miles.  There is something to be said about preparation, so you know what you are up against.  To take a step back from there, we first must have a goal in mind, then put forth some objectives to help us get there, and if the objectives aren’t clear it will be difficult to measure our progress.  I digress.  So, considering my insufficient preparation, I ran into a stretch of road that had recently been stripped in order to be resurfaced.  You know what I am talking about; the road that you travel on in your car with all of the orange signs and pylons everywhere, and your car just starts vibrating and shaking because of the uneveness of the surface.  Now picture yourself on a skinny tired, speed bike traversing down this road at 11pm at night with traffic.  Not a good picture!  I did ok for the first mile, but then came a sudden stop light that I was not expecting.  I quickly tried to slow down because there was crossing traffic, and as I was taking my right foot out of the strap, my foot got caught.  I glanced down just for a moment and caused my bike to veer just a little to the right.  Before I knew it, I was parallel with the pavement flying towards a light post.  My front tire hit the side of the curbing system that was positioned above the road.  I just laid there for a moment and could hear a few people in the cars next to me asking me if I was ok.  I took a quick  inventory of my body and was happy to see that I really did not have any scrapes other than my right forearm was sore for taking most of the impact with the pavement and my pinky was bleeding pretty bad.  I may have broken it, but that was pretty much the only injury, so I am thankful for that because it could have been much worse.  This is the first battle wound, and I anticipate there will be more, so I am going to title this part 1.  I am not negatively prognosticating, but I just know that when you are after achieving something great, things are liable to happen, so when they do, I am going to get up, shake the asphalt and gravel off of me, put my helmet back on, tell everyone I am ok, oh, and put the chain back on my bike and keep going.  I think many of you reading this would do the same thing because we are taking on the Challenge and Factoring the difference.

Sheldon

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Matt Riding in Hot-lanta!

August 6, 2009

Matt in GAThis past Monday I was in Atlanta GA. and I went for a 70 mile training ride on the bike.  It was a hot and steaming day on the Silver Comet Trail.  The first 35 miles went pretty well although I was dripping with sweat from under my helmet like someone had just turned on a faucet.  It was a long ride and at times very tough.  As I kept riding, my mind turned to the Show Me Challenge and why I was doing all this.  It is in an effort to raise money for the Touch by Cancer Foundation and support those who have been touched by this disease. Whatever pain I was feeling could never compare to the pain of those who have suffered cancer in their lives.  I rode through what appeared to be an old train tunnel.  It was a long dark tunnel with just a spot of light at the other end.  It made me think of the dark tunnels we sometimes go through in our lives but how good it is to know that the light of the world is waiting for us on the other side.  At just over 50 miles I was out of water and snacks.  I had run out of my fuel for the Challenge.  I began to hit a wall and was beginning to wonder how I was going to finish.  I was able to detour from the trial and find a gas station when I was about 13 miles from being done.  I rehydrated and was back on my way.  I finished strong and felt good.

As if I had not exerted enough energy by biking 70 miles that day I went out wakeboarding that evening and expended what remaining energy I had.

I encourage all of you to Aspire, Believe, and Conquer your goals and Challenges in life.

“Accept the Challenge & Factor the difference” That is the Challenge Factor.

Matt